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Pages from Tiffany’s Journal
January 24, 2002, “The Circle of
My Life”
Margaret
Fuller was once noted as wearing her circle of friends as a necklace of
diamonds about her neck. She was a person of strength and eloquent
compassion, and accurate judgment to say the least, and as she preached,
“speak the best word that is in thee,” I seem to feel an utmost strange
parallel between her life’s philosophy and mine. My own life has a similar
connection to this idea of building sacred friendships with which to share
God’s path. Growing up, my grandmother and mother instilled in me the value
of secure relationships and the honest word, and the atrocity of
“convenient acquaintances.” They proclaimed with clear reverence that in life,
I could in time count my true friends on one hand. So, as it appears some
years later, their declaration has become accurate. I have become that
woman, just as Margaret Fuller was, who wears people as diamonds, each
placed in a strategic location, at all times close to her. Although I
cannot foster the idea of a fully beaded or stone set necklace at present
time, the gems that my life does contain continue to sparkle with the
passage of time. At an earlier age I could not aspire to the idea of
limiting or maintaining only a few relationships, but I now comprehend that
on the journey each of us travel, there are particular endeavors that only
certain “critics” may review. Fuller presents, in “A Short Essay on Critics,”
“the critic is beneath the maker, but is his needed friend.” I am honored
to be on lists for review, and as I fuse to my “best word” so too are my
true gems proud to gives their marks. Starting to build upon this true key
to life, am I with only half of a memento to wear, I know in time, that
some gems will diminish in sparkle, and some will be lost and replaced, but
it won’t be the stones I will remember in the long run. I will never forget
although the lessons and instances shared and the various times the stones
fit together to form the grand, yet still advancing necklace I call life.
Margaret Fuller, thank you for adding some shine.
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Above: Tiffany Lawrence (photo by Linda Tate).
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